Getting a blowjob is one of the simple, great pleasures in life.
Asking for a blowjob however, is not.
Guys who are inexperienced in dating, shy or otherwise anxious can make the asking for a blowjob all the more difficult.
In this post we will look how you can get a blowjob with a girl you've been dating, or even a girl you have just met. These aren't steps or a formula for getting a blowjob, but a series of advice to guide you.
'The Mood'.
Unless you have been dating the girl for a very long time, it is unlikely that she will immediately suck your cock right away if you ask her directly. She needs to feel involved in giving you a blowjob, it must seem like it's something special to both you and her to get her interest going. Make sure you have been kissing, fondling each other beforehand, get the sexual chemistry and tension going first before diving into it.
Pleasure her First
Now the brief interlude of kissing, fondling is over and the expectation of more has been set, now you need to start pleasuring her. No woman wants to feel that she is being taken advantage of, by putting her pleasure first she will also feel the need to reciporcate. This is even better if you are good at giving oral sex or simply enjoy it. Many women will happily return the favor afterwards (or at the same time). If she does give you a blowjob while you are going down try to keep your concentration. The better you do at eating her out the more motivated she will be to suck your cock, and to do it properly.
Position is Everything
If it takes you longer than five minutes to cum, you better make sure that she's comfortable. If you're in a car make sure the seatbelts are off and that you have something she can rest against her side such as pillow. If you're in bed, the best position of recieving a blowjob is for her to be between your legs with something soft underneath her elbows. If you're standing and she's on her knees, she can put a pillow underneath her knees or shins to keep herself comfortable. The idea is to be generous and not pushy, most women love giving head but they need to feel both emotionally and phyiscally comfortable in order to do it properly.
Give her something to suck
(Aside from the obvious..), if you have been doing the above and want to know if she's ready to give a blowjob, circle your fingers around her lips. If she starts sucking on your fingers suggestively you will know that she's ready to give you head. If you want to make sure you can even simulate the motions of her sucking you off, pushing your fingers smoothly in an out of her lips. If she is uncomfortable, refocus on making her feel comfortable and horny, if she gladly accepts your fingers in her mouth you can gently guide your cock into her mouth and she will start giving you a blowjob.
The above method has worked for me countless times on random encounters as well as on dates with women. It removes the awkwardness/potential rejection of them saying no or suddenly finding out that's not what she's into.
Tell her what you want
If all else fails, girls love to told what to do by a dominant male. If she doesn't get the hint that you want a blowjob, tell her bluntly that you want her to suck your cock, but say in a way that will make her want to do it.
That feels so good.. you are so good at stroking my cock.. put it in your mouth..
That feels amazing, try sucking on it.
Suck my cock..
Different girls will deal with different modes of persuasion. If she's the prideful type, you can try flattering her into doing it. If she's submissive (like most girls are), they will appreciate being told exactly what you want them to do and will gladly do it to make you happy.
The key idea to remember when getting a blowjob from a girl is respect. She has to do it by her own free will and because she enjoys it. Don't force her head down if she doesn't like it, don't make her gag if she tells you not to. Remember, she has the most sensitive part of your entire body literally between her teeth, if she's doing it in a way that you don't like, become the teacher and show her what you respond to.
She likely has given other guys blowjobs before, and is used to doing it their way instead of what you like. This is normal and means that she is used to making her partner feel good. Be patient and after a few weeks or months she will be giving you amazing blowjobs and will want to do it over and over again.
Wed, May 16, 2012
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